Life is like an endless game.
You’re either winning or losing.
Winning.
Winning may be great but think about think about it. does winning really mean something? yeah you beat someone or something but for what? a few minutes of fame or a few minutes feeling good about what you did. yeah it may feel good for that moment but there are consciences for every action. you may not like the consciences but you must face them. Because winning always cost you something important. you may not realize it at first but later you will notice what you lost.
Losing
when you’re losing you are not really losing. yes losing may suck but you will have to deal with it. losing just makes you a strong person. Even if losing means you lose something close to you, you will realize that losing has just made you stronger, tougher, smarter. losing will leave scars, reminders of your loss, reminders that you did not win that fight, reminders of your misery, reminders of your struggle, reminders of time you will never get back, reminders of tears you shed, reminders of the blood you lost, reminders of everything. losing can only make you stronger.
Life
Life has many struggle. life IS a never ending struggle. Life is a battle. life is a never ending battle. Life is a game. The heart beating in your chest is a reminder that your are alive. even if you feel you are dead that heart beating in your chest is proof that you are alive. somedays you may feel alone, feel that you are nothing, feel that you are not loved, you are depressed, you will feel that you are not needed. but you can feel happy, loved, and so much more. Life is a dream. life is complicated and some days you will want to give up but remember some one cares. even if they don’t show it they’re thinking of you. yeah it may not be the way you want to be thought of but some one somewhere is thinking of you.
Death
Death is sad but to may people its an end to a struggle. it represents happiness to some people. an end to a struggle, battle, game. a heart beat. death can be seen as an escape. an escape into a place of no return. where you do not have to worry about anything. where that stupid heart of yours does not exist. its ceased its beating. grief follows with any one’s death. it may not come right away but it’s there. it’s that ever present feeling lingering in the air. death is the ever lingering feeling in the air. the feeling that at any moment you or the any one near you will die.
Me
i have had my fair experience of winning, losing, life and death. i have been on the edge of death. overdosing, slitting my wrist, hanging myself, surgery, and jumping in front of cars. my most recent attempt left me in hot pink water, wrists bleeding out. the blood was proof of my life. i leaned my head back and closed my eyes. descending into a black oblivion. not feeling anything. i was only a woken by the cry of my dearest friend. he stood over me yelling “don’t go yet! i need you! if you love me you would stay alive! if you won’t live for me live for kyle! think of what you’re doing to him! you’re killing him brittany! if you love him you, would live brittany! he loves you! don’t throw that away! Kyle loves you brittany! He loves you so fucking much!” at that point the memories i had of kyle played behind my closed lids then the final one kyle slitting her wrists so he could be with me. i cried. i cried so much. i could never hurt kyle. he means so much to me and tristian made me realize i was going to give up someone who die for me. i was going to have the kid i love kill himself. i told kyle what happened later that night. he just held me and said “brittany i love you so much. if you would have died i would have killed myself. i can’t live without you. you’ve always been there for me. without you i don’t know what i’d be. you’re like the other half of me. i wish i could protect you better. i wish i could love you better. you mean so much to me. you always will have part of my heart and you always will be part of me. sweetie if you need anything just tell me. i’ll always be here for you. i love you.”
all i can say is life is a gift that can be really messed up and complicated but when you look back there will always be something to smile about.
Dedicated to Kyle Carter West. The boy who holds my heart and will always be there for me. i love you kyle and one day i’ll pay you back for everything you have done for me
